Intimate Assumptions™: When Love Talks in Circles

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🧿 Intimate Assumptions™

Some “I Love Yous” are really just quiet control. Some silence? Just fear with good manners. 🤐

We weren’t just raised—we were programmed. Taught to be polite. Not powerful. Useful. Not honest.

Even when the vibe felt off... Smile. Sit still. Be nice. 😬

So we learned:
🕶️ Smiles can lie.
🧃 Sweet words can distract.
🙏🏽 “For your own good” can mean “shut up and behave.”

And the worst part? We thought it was love. 💔

Some of us became peacekeepers. Pretend-laughers. Charmers with anxiety. 👋🏽 ¡Hola trauma response!

Pero ahora... ahora we’re catching on. 🇵🇷💡

We don’t want fake calm. We want the kind of peace that doesn’t feel like walking on cáscaras de huevo. 🥚🚫

💥 We’re done confusing:
— Nice with Safe 😇
— Smart with Kind 🧠
— Charisma with Commitment 🧲
— Silence with Growth 💤

We’ve been linguistically played before. 😒 By poets, pastors, playas—even your tía que ora por ti but gossips about you. ☕️

Now?

We listen with more than our ears. We trust the gut. The cuerpo. The vibe check. 🧿💃🏽

🎶 “Smiling faces… sometimes they don’t tell the truth.” Can you dig it?

👶🏽 You weren’t naive. You were hopeful. Looking for love, not manipulation. You didn’t miss the signs—you just wanted it to be real.

And now?
Now you see it.
And that means you’re free. 🌱

This isn’t just “communication style.” It’s Emotional Truth Recovery™. Learning to decode intention from energy. And Rewriting The Rules For Real Connection™.

Because:
✨ False Closeness Is Still Violence™
✨ Charm Isn’t Care™
✨ Energy ≠ Intention™

And if we’re honest?
We faked it too. 😮‍💨 To survive. To stay. To keep the love we thought we needed.

But ahora?

We ask better questions.
We walk slower into new rooms.
We remember:
Love Without Safety Isn’t Really Love™

💌 You don’t owe anyone access to your nervous system.
💬 You don’t have to translate confusion for free.
🚪 You can walk away—even if they quote Mr. Rogers.

Because being real… Is How We Heal™ 🩵

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