Betrayal & Intimate Strangers

“Intimate Assumptions” & the Sacred Side of Anger

🌚 “Intimate assumptions” sound like the language of false closeness — the lies spoken like truths, the silence mistaken for peace, and the value of your voice constantly measured against what you should be to others. 🥴

I use to fear my own anger. That fire in my chest? I thought it meant I was broken. But maybe—maybe—it was my soul raising its voice. A SoulCry™, not a meltdown.

We don’t always talk about it, but some of us weren’t raised with the tools to trust that voice. Especially if we were taught to perform peace, smile through betrayal, or shrink to fit someone else's comfort zone.

When You Betray Yourself Just to Be Believed

There’s this moment—the one where you feel the sting of misalignment—and instead of trusting your gut, you rationalize it away. “Maybe I’m being dramatic.” “They didn’t mean it.” “It’s fine.”

Pero no, mi amor. Sometimes the real betrayal is silence. Or staying. Or laughing when we want to cry. And wow, that’s heavy. Generationally heavy. 😮‍💨

Anger Isn’t the Enemy—It’s the Alarm

It doesn’t mean we’re unhealed. It means something important is knocking. And honestly? Sometimes I need to sit with that fire. Let it speak. Ask what it’s trying to protect.

Because now I know: “Dark Doesn’t Mean Broken™”. And sometimes “Truth That Tingles™” burns before it blesses.

The Velvet Rope Boundary Era

We get to say: “This version of me doesn’t fold under charm or chaos.” Boundaries aren’t walls—they’re velvet ropes. Elegantly firm. Unapologetically clear.

And if someone’s vibe can’t pass the bouncer? Pues... no están invitados. 🕶️✨

Want More?

If this spoke to something inside you—anger, clarity, boundaries, voice—come sit with me in the next post. It’s a whole vibe: From Victim to Visionary.

Con cariño y claridad,
Anew Mirror

Soul-Up™
Because Your Spirit Didn’t Come Here to Settle.